Aubrey Dameron

Date of Last Contact: March 9, 2019

Location of Disappearance: Grove, Oklahoma

Location of remains: Cardin, Oklahoma

Physical Characteristics: Approximately 5′ 9″ – 5′ 10″ tall, approximately 140 – 170 pounds, 25 years old, Cherokee female with long brown hair and brown eyes. Aubrey has two known tattoos one on the back of her neck of 3 interconnected ovals or triquetra, and one on her upper left arm that says “Shorty”.

Last Seen Wearing: Black shirt, black thigh-high miniskirt, black hose, and black leather boots with heels

Investigating Agency: Quapaw Nation Marshal Service

(918) 238-3137

Aubrey Dameron went missing on March 9th 2019. At the time of her disappearance, she was 25 years old.

The night she was last seen, Aubrey was leaving her mother’s home in Grove around 3:30am. She had stated she was leaving to go meet someone and would be back later. She has not been heard from or seen since, and who it was she was going to meet is unknown. Aubrey had taken only her cell phone and what clothes she had on with her- the last time her cell phone pinged was around 3:42 am the same morning as she was last seen. It pinged near her mother’s house, but after that timeframe it had either died or had been shut off.

Before she disappeared, Aubrey had been staying at her mother’s house with her mother, stepfather and her brother after having just moved back to the area from New Mexico after a breakup. It has been claimed in some sources that it was possible tensions were high in the household; according to her uncle and aunt, Aubrey’s behavior had become concerning in the months leading up to her disappearance- including her communication with other family members decreasing as well as her social media presence showing decreased activity.

Aubrey is an epileptic and on medication to control her seizures, medication she left home without, so it’s unlikely she planned to be gone for a long period of time. She is also a member of the Cherokee Nation, making her yet another Indigenous Woman who has gone missing in recent years with no explanation.

Another strange part of Aubrey’s disappearance is that on March 12th, 2019, a woman claiming to be a friend of Aubrey’s called Aubrey’s ex-boyfriend in Colorado stating that Aubrey had been taken and was being held hostage due to a drug debt she owed. The friend stated Aubrey would only be released when the money was paid and asked the ex-boyfriend to pay the amount. The authorities were notified of this call and the friend was later charged with extortion and admitted the whole call was a hoax.

Currently no one has any idea what’s happened to Aubrey.

Aubrey is 25, stands at 5 feet 10 inches tall, with brown eyes and hair. She has a Triquetra tattoo on her back and one of the word “Shorty” on her upper left arm. She was last seen wearing a black shirt, black thigh length skirt and black heeled boots.

UPDATE JANUARY 2025:

Media Release by the Quapaw Nation marshal Service

” On January 31, 2025, the Quapaw Nation Marshal Service responded to a call regarding the discovery of human remains located near South 565 Road and East 30 Road, north of Commerce in rural Ottawa County, Oklahoma. Forensic Anthropologists with the Oklahoma Medical Examiners (ME) Office were called and responded to the scene where they searched the area and collected the remains. The remains were taken to the ME’s office for further examination and identification. The preliminary investigation indicated the remains were that of a male of Native American or Hispanic descent. Due to the condition of the remains, they appeared to have been at the location for an undetermined period of time. On February 5, 2025, the Oklahoma ME Office confirmed the identity of the decedent to be Aubrey/Austin Dameron (NamUs MP# 56175), an enrolled member of the Cherokee Nation. Aubrey was last seen during the early morning hours on March 9, 2019, as she was leaving her mother’s residence in the Grove area, on foot, dressed in black, leaving her purse at the residence, with plans to meet someone. Since March 2019, numerous interviews have been conducted and leads followed up on by the Delaware County Sheriff’s Office, Oklahoma State Bureau of Investigation, Cherokee Nation Marshal Service, BIA Missing and Murdered Unit and the Federal Bureau of Investigation(FBI).

Aubrey’s family has been notified of the identification of their loved one. We extend our sincere condolences to Aubrey’s family and friends as the past six (6) long years of searching for Aubrey
has come to an end and the investigation into Aubrey’s death continues. If you have any information related to the disappearance of Aubrey Dameron, please contact the Quapaw Nation Marshal Service at (918) 238-3137 or Central Dispatch at (918) 542-5585. The investigation into Aubrey’s death is being led by the Quapaw Nation Marshal Service Investigative Division in close collaboration with the Cherokee Nation Marshal Service, BIA Missing and Murdered Unit and the FBI.

Authority: Charles Addington, Executive Director of Public Safety, Quapaw Nation”

If you have any information regarding the case of Aubrey Dameron, please contact the Quapaw Nation Marshal Service at (918) 238-3137 or Central Dispatch at (918) 542-5585.